Don't pity him. Act like you never found out. He obviously likes the way his life is now, with you, so don't change it with all your sympathy. I understand where you are coming from, though. But honestly your post really struck a cord with me and I can understand your boyfriend's situation all too well.
Anyway, he loves you, and from the way your talking you love him back. Just keep going the way you were, youre making his life better by helping him forget. Dont bring it up; if he really wants to talk about it with you he will.
Is it normal that I am confused about my boyfriend's traumatic past?
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Don't pity him. Act like you never found out. He obviously likes the way his life is now, with you, so don't change it with all your sympathy. I understand where you are coming from, though. But honestly your post really struck a cord with me and I can understand your boyfriend's situation all too well.
Anyway, he loves you, and from the way your talking you love him back. Just keep going the way you were, youre making his life better by helping him forget. Dont bring it up; if he really wants to talk about it with you he will.
I wish you an eternity of love and happiness! :)