I'm not sure what to say about it. Usually I would say its better to talk about it than to keep it all bottled up but in this case maybe talking about it might disturb him a lot. He has gone through a tough time. Maybe don't force him to talk about it, if be mentions something then sure ask, listen and don't judge but don't make him talk about it. And don't be weirded out by his past, the last thing he needs is to have his past ruin his present (you) he needs you to be understanding, supportive and to not be judgmental. Good luck girl!
Is it normal that I am confused about my boyfriend's traumatic past?
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I'm not sure what to say about it. Usually I would say its better to talk about it than to keep it all bottled up but in this case maybe talking about it might disturb him a lot. He has gone through a tough time. Maybe don't force him to talk about it, if be mentions something then sure ask, listen and don't judge but don't make him talk about it. And don't be weirded out by his past, the last thing he needs is to have his past ruin his present (you) he needs you to be understanding, supportive and to not be judgmental. Good luck girl!