Is it normal that i am attracted to women but have a boyfriend?

Sounds like you would make my perfect girlfriend.LOL! Every girl should be like you. God bless you, and I am an atheist!

For some reason, women seem to be more inclined to bi-sexual activity. About 20 years ago, my wife confessed that she had sexual fantasies about a friend for more than 2 years. I encouraged her to talk to her friend and I suggest the same thing to you.

To our surprise and delight, her firend had the same feelings. Since then, they see each other sexually about once or twice a month. For the last 5 years, about 2 or 3 times a year, they invite me to join them.

Both women are straight, in my eyes. Our friend is also married, but her husband does not join us.

You should tell your boyfriend about it and make sure he's okay with it. If he's not, break off the relationship. Otherwise you might end up cheating on him and hurting him.

I think it's normal :)

I'm 23 years old. My girlfriend is 39 and we've been together nearly 2 years. She, too, is bisexual and this was something she conveyed to me right at the start of our dating but at the beginning, neither of us could handle the idea of either of us being pleased by someone else.

She'd had a history of being with other men and doing the "swing" thing where she'd enjoy both men and women. It was a lot for me to wrap my mind around. Naturally, being crazy about this woman, it drove me nuts - the idea of her being pleased by someone else. ANYONE else.. man, woman, whoever.

But honesty is the only way to work through this. Over time, we were able to build the kind of trust in our relationship where we knew we could separate love and emotions from the kinky freaky sexcapades, and we're able to occasionally have other active members participating with us when we're being freaky. And the kinkier we get, the more in love we seem to feel because we're just being who we are without asking the other to change. When we sleep at night, she's still holding onto me and telling me that she loves me and I know she means it.

So, bottom line.. be honest. Don't try to force answers out of your boyfriend but let him hear your ideas, let them sink in over some days or weeks if necessary. Maybe he would be turned on by just watching you with another woman and jerking off - who knows? You have fantsies. I'm sure he has some, too. Maybe ask him.

In my opinion, it's perfectly normal and it can be a GREAT thing in your relationship. Nothing like an exciting sex life to keep ya smiling all day.

Yeah, What'sMyName? is right. Some people think that to be bisexual means you have to LOVE both sexes. It doesn't. It just means you're sexually attracted to both sexes. Perfectly normal.
Talk to your boyfriend about it. Bring it up slowly, in case he's not too hot on the idea of you sleeping with a woman or even a threesome, if that sounds enticing to you.
I, too, am bisexual & have a boyfriend. My duel sexual interests are a little different from yours, but I understand.

its just how each person is i guess..

i like to watch lesbian videos but i dont crush on girls in real life and think im straight as i really like guys but never had a feeling like that for a girl.

maybe ur just curious

Seriously? Wow.

It's called being bisexual.