Is it normal that i am attracted to men twice my age?

It's definitely wrong, but the only part that is, is the cheating. I'm married to a man 20 years older than me, who I love deeply, and could never cheat on. Cheating always bothered me, but especially after marriage. I understand how that must be driving you nuts, but acting on it would be horrible. Think of your husband and how much he loves you. I'm sure he'd be devastated. And is sex really worth ruining love? Sex isn't worth it. Roleplay with your husband, spice things up in the bedroom and maybe you will forget about that other guy. It would be a good idea to distance yourself from him completely if possible.

"Sometimes, an immutable sexual hunger for one of your parents is just an immutable sexual hunger for one of your parents." (Freud, 1998)

"Also, I put cigars in my butthole." (Freud, 2006)

I can understand your situation, what you want is just physical pleasure without the emotional attachment. But the risks are high, if all is discreet and quite then fine, otherwise the ultimate price to pay is your marriage.

Unless you speak to your spouse and look at possibilities of an open relationship.

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It is normal for many women, and I think it is great! just know what you have to loose!

There are 3 aspects in your question:

1) IIN to feel attracted to older men

2) IIN to have a sexual relations with several persons.

3) IIN to feel guilty to go out with someone who is married.

I m married and I go out with a girl twice as young as me. Why? Mainly because I want to spread my DNA as much as possible and my body tells me to use good hardware (young girl) to have children. This is my archaic brain which dictates this behavior. Of course there is a cultural pressure against this kind of couple but I don't care because I m so happy with my girl.The other reason is that young people seems much more open (the older you get , the more you close the world). And I need to feel this openness around me. The 3rd reason is that it makes me feel younger (frighten of death)

I would say enjoy yourself but be aware that you might loose your marriage. And you might break the marriage of the other guy.

Just curious, is your husband a lot older or closer to your age? And, you can't control who you're attracted to, but try to ignore these feelings and they'll go away. Don't mess around with him if you're both married.

Lol Flutterhigh.

I won't bore you with the probable reasons. Hinting at Freud, I'll assume you already know. What you need to work out is what you (and your husband) are going to do about it.