The only time pedophilia or any other potentially harmful sexual preference becomes a problem is when it actually hurts someone. What you seem to be saying is that my mere existence is robbing little girls of their innocence and causing concern for their parents. I didn't chose to be like this, and am trying to live with my attraction as best I can. Does that make me "selfish" in your eyes? Receiving therapy isn't an option, since I'd almost certainly be put under some kind of surveillance, and be listed as a 'potential offender'. Seeing the paranoid responses I received here on IIN has definitely deterred me from sharing my trouble with someone else. You all can't get past the fact that I'm not the monster you'd like to think I am. If you met me, the thought that I might be a pedophile would probably never even cross your mind. Sorry for the delayed response.
Correct, beating people back into the closet causes absolutely nothing but harm.
And technically one doesn't even need to be a pedophile to become unjustly stigmatized as one; all they need is to be the subject of implausible rumors from an unreliable source - or very likely, even less. The hysteria on this subject has truly spiraled completely out of control. "An adult male expressing interest in speaking to my daughter?! Oh my god! HEY! EVERYBODY! THIS GUY'S A RAPIST!!!"
By the way, have you noticed the current normalcy rating of your post? Not sure if I know what to make of that.
I know. People tend to exaggerate things like this, and someone with a pretty innocent attraction to children can come to be seen as a vicious baby-molesting predator. It was quite interesting bringing this to IIN, and seeing how most people blew things way out of proportion. As I said before, it makes me realize that 'coming out' would be far too risky.
After reading the first responses, I was expecting the rating of this post to stay well below 30% normal, but it has climbed nearly to half way. Perhaps the voters just took a little while to simmer down.
That's so dumb. This pedo comes here acting like the % of "normal" votes actually has anything to do with it being actually normal or not. How stupid, are you serious? happy to burst that bubble and see it's lowered in normal vs not votes
you're a pedo. Simple! Go somewhere where you can learn about your sick twisted views of our children and get help. like above states, not born with it. Freaking cop out for perverts to feel better about being sick predators!!
If you feel like you would act on your feelings, definitely seek help, do a deep research to find actual help and persons who care about the safety of kids, also care about you and how horrible you must feel, it's more common than you might think, people just don't talk about it, because it's uncomfortable and looked upon worse than anything, pray, meditate or try make yourself a better person inside, so you would never hurt an innocent being.
Is it normal that I am attracted to little girls?
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The only time pedophilia or any other potentially harmful sexual preference becomes a problem is when it actually hurts someone. What you seem to be saying is that my mere existence is robbing little girls of their innocence and causing concern for their parents. I didn't chose to be like this, and am trying to live with my attraction as best I can. Does that make me "selfish" in your eyes? Receiving therapy isn't an option, since I'd almost certainly be put under some kind of surveillance, and be listed as a 'potential offender'. Seeing the paranoid responses I received here on IIN has definitely deterred me from sharing my trouble with someone else. You all can't get past the fact that I'm not the monster you'd like to think I am. If you met me, the thought that I might be a pedophile would probably never even cross your mind. Sorry for the delayed response.
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Correct, beating people back into the closet causes absolutely nothing but harm.
And technically one doesn't even need to be a pedophile to become unjustly stigmatized as one; all they need is to be the subject of implausible rumors from an unreliable source - or very likely, even less. The hysteria on this subject has truly spiraled completely out of control. "An adult male expressing interest in speaking to my daughter?! Oh my god! HEY! EVERYBODY! THIS GUY'S A RAPIST!!!"
By the way, have you noticed the current normalcy rating of your post? Not sure if I know what to make of that.
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I know. People tend to exaggerate things like this, and someone with a pretty innocent attraction to children can come to be seen as a vicious baby-molesting predator. It was quite interesting bringing this to IIN, and seeing how most people blew things way out of proportion. As I said before, it makes me realize that 'coming out' would be far too risky.
After reading the first responses, I was expecting the rating of this post to stay well below 30% normal, but it has climbed nearly to half way. Perhaps the voters just took a little while to simmer down.
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That's so dumb. This pedo comes here acting like the % of "normal" votes actually has anything to do with it being actually normal or not. How stupid, are you serious? happy to burst that bubble and see it's lowered in normal vs not votes
you're a pedo. Simple! Go somewhere where you can learn about your sick twisted views of our children and get help. like above states, not born with it. Freaking cop out for perverts to feel better about being sick predators!!
If you feel like you would act on your feelings, definitely seek help, do a deep research to find actual help and persons who care about the safety of kids, also care about you and how horrible you must feel, it's more common than you might think, people just don't talk about it, because it's uncomfortable and looked upon worse than anything, pray, meditate or try make yourself a better person inside, so you would never hurt an innocent being.