Any debate regarding Original Poster's claim, makes me cringe. Although the poster claims, "I don't intend harm" and states they avoid kiddie-porn, it's just unlikely. You know you're attracted to them, so with this admission it's evident you commit some form of release. Even if just 'fantasy', no younger attractive female is 'safe' in your presence. So you stare at them in public and jerk off to it later and that makes it ok? Just because you don't act on it, by risking your freedom and life in prison, doesn't make you a superior and controlled person with a perversion. It just makes it clear, like most predatory people, you keep it to your thoughts. Which is good, but the ONLY good thing about this. Yes, I said predatory. Any young female you look at, you are removing their innocence in YOUR mind and making them an object of SEXUAL desire, that is your own choice and ruins everyday life for mothers and fathers around this world, because people like you exist, causing them those fears/worry they have in public -- keeping that extra careful eye over their young hoping their child isn't being preyed on or in this case, fawned over by a grown adult. Deviant behavior is NOT justified with the claim they're born that way or it's 'mental wiring'. Just like a lot of dark fantasies people have, nature vs nurture is so very relevant. Most people are just too weak to take the time to solve sexual issue, because sexual activity is enjoyable, much like drug addicts and their failures/justification to not stop. So many people have been victim to their innocence being ripped away by selfish, sexual predators, my best friend's included, amongst so MANY others. What's more frustrating, is these types who you know lurk the grocery stores isles, malls, pta meetings-- and think just because they don't 'act' on it, that their lusting thoughts they take home make it ok. Truly a shame people are too mentally lazy, weak and SELFISH to gain control of their senses and issues and conquer them as opposed to stay content/complacent with them and indulge. All for nothing.
The only time pedophilia or any other potentially harmful sexual preference becomes a problem is when it actually hurts someone. What you seem to be saying is that my mere existence is robbing little girls of their innocence and causing concern for their parents. I didn't chose to be like this, and am trying to live with my attraction as best I can. Does that make me "selfish" in your eyes? Receiving therapy isn't an option, since I'd almost certainly be put under some kind of surveillance, and be listed as a 'potential offender'. Seeing the paranoid responses I received here on IIN has definitely deterred me from sharing my trouble with someone else. You all can't get past the fact that I'm not the monster you'd like to think I am. If you met me, the thought that I might be a pedophile would probably never even cross your mind. Sorry for the delayed response.
Correct, beating people back into the closet causes absolutely nothing but harm.
And technically one doesn't even need to be a pedophile to become unjustly stigmatized as one; all they need is to be the subject of implausible rumors from an unreliable source - or very likely, even less. The hysteria on this subject has truly spiraled completely out of control. "An adult male expressing interest in speaking to my daughter?! Oh my god! HEY! EVERYBODY! THIS GUY'S A RAPIST!!!"
By the way, have you noticed the current normalcy rating of your post? Not sure if I know what to make of that.
I know. People tend to exaggerate things like this, and someone with a pretty innocent attraction to children can come to be seen as a vicious baby-molesting predator. It was quite interesting bringing this to IIN, and seeing how most people blew things way out of proportion. As I said before, it makes me realize that 'coming out' would be far too risky.
After reading the first responses, I was expecting the rating of this post to stay well below 30% normal, but it has climbed nearly to half way. Perhaps the voters just took a little while to simmer down.
That's so dumb. This pedo comes here acting like the % of "normal" votes actually has anything to do with it being actually normal or not. How stupid, are you serious? happy to burst that bubble and see it's lowered in normal vs not votes
you're a pedo. Simple! Go somewhere where you can learn about your sick twisted views of our children and get help. like above states, not born with it. Freaking cop out for perverts to feel better about being sick predators!!
If you feel like you would act on your feelings, definitely seek help, do a deep research to find actual help and persons who care about the safety of kids, also care about you and how horrible you must feel, it's more common than you might think, people just don't talk about it, because it's uncomfortable and looked upon worse than anything, pray, meditate or try make yourself a better person inside, so you would never hurt an innocent being.
Is it normal that I am attracted to little girls?
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Any debate regarding Original Poster's claim, makes me cringe. Although the poster claims, "I don't intend harm" and states they avoid kiddie-porn, it's just unlikely. You know you're attracted to them, so with this admission it's evident you commit some form of release. Even if just 'fantasy', no younger attractive female is 'safe' in your presence. So you stare at them in public and jerk off to it later and that makes it ok? Just because you don't act on it, by risking your freedom and life in prison, doesn't make you a superior and controlled person with a perversion. It just makes it clear, like most predatory people, you keep it to your thoughts. Which is good, but the ONLY good thing about this. Yes, I said predatory. Any young female you look at, you are removing their innocence in YOUR mind and making them an object of SEXUAL desire, that is your own choice and ruins everyday life for mothers and fathers around this world, because people like you exist, causing them those fears/worry they have in public -- keeping that extra careful eye over their young hoping their child isn't being preyed on or in this case, fawned over by a grown adult. Deviant behavior is NOT justified with the claim they're born that way or it's 'mental wiring'. Just like a lot of dark fantasies people have, nature vs nurture is so very relevant. Most people are just too weak to take the time to solve sexual issue, because sexual activity is enjoyable, much like drug addicts and their failures/justification to not stop. So many people have been victim to their innocence being ripped away by selfish, sexual predators, my best friend's included, amongst so MANY others. What's more frustrating, is these types who you know lurk the grocery stores isles, malls, pta meetings-- and think just because they don't 'act' on it, that their lusting thoughts they take home make it ok. Truly a shame people are too mentally lazy, weak and SELFISH to gain control of their senses and issues and conquer them as opposed to stay content/complacent with them and indulge. All for nothing.
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So what your saying is homosexuals are "Deviant"?
The only time pedophilia or any other potentially harmful sexual preference becomes a problem is when it actually hurts someone. What you seem to be saying is that my mere existence is robbing little girls of their innocence and causing concern for their parents. I didn't chose to be like this, and am trying to live with my attraction as best I can. Does that make me "selfish" in your eyes? Receiving therapy isn't an option, since I'd almost certainly be put under some kind of surveillance, and be listed as a 'potential offender'. Seeing the paranoid responses I received here on IIN has definitely deterred me from sharing my trouble with someone else. You all can't get past the fact that I'm not the monster you'd like to think I am. If you met me, the thought that I might be a pedophile would probably never even cross your mind. Sorry for the delayed response.
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Correct, beating people back into the closet causes absolutely nothing but harm.
And technically one doesn't even need to be a pedophile to become unjustly stigmatized as one; all they need is to be the subject of implausible rumors from an unreliable source - or very likely, even less. The hysteria on this subject has truly spiraled completely out of control. "An adult male expressing interest in speaking to my daughter?! Oh my god! HEY! EVERYBODY! THIS GUY'S A RAPIST!!!"
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I know. People tend to exaggerate things like this, and someone with a pretty innocent attraction to children can come to be seen as a vicious baby-molesting predator. It was quite interesting bringing this to IIN, and seeing how most people blew things way out of proportion. As I said before, it makes me realize that 'coming out' would be far too risky.
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That's so dumb. This pedo comes here acting like the % of "normal" votes actually has anything to do with it being actually normal or not. How stupid, are you serious? happy to burst that bubble and see it's lowered in normal vs not votes
you're a pedo. Simple! Go somewhere where you can learn about your sick twisted views of our children and get help. like above states, not born with it. Freaking cop out for perverts to feel better about being sick predators!!
If you feel like you would act on your feelings, definitely seek help, do a deep research to find actual help and persons who care about the safety of kids, also care about you and how horrible you must feel, it's more common than you might think, people just don't talk about it, because it's uncomfortable and looked upon worse than anything, pray, meditate or try make yourself a better person inside, so you would never hurt an innocent being.