Is it normal that i am afraid to ask another guy if i can suck him off

I am never sure how to come on to another guy who I think is sexy. I would love to give him a blowjob or whatever but an afraid to. What do you straight guys think? How do I ask you if I can suck you off?

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  • You are going to need lots and lots of patience. Unlike a boy girl hook-up at some bar, where both are looking for or hoping for a little sexual excitement. He obviously knows nothing of you hopefull intentions or longing. Just be yourself and establish a friendship, first and foremost. Keep your desires to yourself until such a time as you know he will not get upset or brush you off if you speak of such intimate things like going down on a guy.
    Perhaps tell him a story of a friend of yours (make believe) that you heard about from another, that he loves sucking cocks and that yo0u always thought he was absolutely straight. Judge the reaction and take it from there. It is well worth the patience because wrapping your lips around a cock and stroking it, is absolutely wonderful and then the ultimate moment when his semen fill your mouth. A true delight.

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    • Yes you are so right. The ultimate gratification of the cocksucker is the moment of his release. The powerful bursts of living sperm, warm and gooey filling up my mouth. And into my belly.

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  • First of all, just as it´s disrespectful of guys to try and make lesbian girls have sex with then you should not try to approach a straight guy for sex.
    Respect his orientation, just as you want people to respect yours.

    Few people fancy blunt, unwelcome sexual advances.

    Hook up with people at a gay club, talk to them on pages where you can see their sexual orientation.

    I´ve been with a straight girl once, she was only with me because her boyfriend wanted it to happen ...

    Needless to say it was dull and boring, you could tell she wasn´t into it.

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  • Best bet is to get to know him then ask. As a guy I would find it flattering that someone wants to suck me off. Man or woman. Even though I am straight.

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    • So okay then babes! I am asking you. May I have the pleasure of taking your cock between my lips?

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      • I'm ready to have my cock sucked by a man. I would love to suck your cock as well. I would love a hot mouthful of cum. Cum is so very delicious! I'm havingy cum right now, tasty.Im 6.5" & cut.

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      • You can suck my 7 inch cut cock any time.

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        • So then, you have a 7inch cock. I have always believed it is not the size but mokre toward how the guy uses it and how long he can 'keep it up' to please others. I have no need to tell anyone how big or little mine is, because I have self confidence within myself to please any man or woman and introduce them to heaven.
          Irrespective of the size, what really takes my fantasy, is the amount of cum you have. I need lots of it.

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        • would love too...and lick your balls too.

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    • thanks rickreed.

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  • Tell a story about a couple guys talking where the one guy ask is he can suck the other guy's cock. Then check his reaction and go from there. You could talk about cocks, for example cut or uncut. Maybe he will tell you about his wiener. If he is uncut I wouldn't blame you for not sucking him off.

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  • Mmmm...sounds like fun.

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  • It's the worst part of finally coming to terms with the fact that you want to suck another guy off is that now you have to find a guy who would like that.

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  • :(

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  • Totally normal to be worried about that. While society is more accepting of LGBTQ people nowadays, there can still be a lot of taboo surrounding us, and it can be hard to gauge how open and receptive a person will be. How you ask is pretty dependent on what your existing relationship with this guy is. If they're a good friend, you may not want to risk hurting the friendship by making him uncomfortable. He is straight, after all. On the flipside, if you're close and comfortable enough with them, you could always just bring it up and have a discussion about it. Tell them you're attracted to them and that you'd be happy to help them out if they want it, but that you don't expect physical or emotional reciprocation. And that is really important, dude. More for your sake than his. You know he's straight, which means you know he could never be attracted to you like he is to women. Have your fun with him if you want and he consents, but don't let yourself start developing romantic feelings for a straight guy. It NEVER ends well, trust me. It can only lead to heartbreak.

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  • The best way to do it is to first invite him over for a drink or two, when he is relaxed start discussing sexual things with him. Tell him how you would love to suck his Dick and massage his balls until he shoots his thick juicy spunk into your warm wet mouth and I guarantee that he will be willing to let you suck him off!

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