Is it normal that i am a romantic lover one night and kinky the next?

84% Normal
10 Comments

I am an 18 year old male. I enjoy wooing a woman and being overly affectionate and passionate. I tend to be the one who "wears the pants" in a relationship, but I share them often.

When I make love, I am all for the cuddles and kissing and all the cutesy stuff, but sometimes, I want something a little different...

I want to be tied up, teased, and treated like an absolute plaything by a woman, and serve her in any way she sees fit. Of course, once that scene is over and done with, I want to do the same to her and I was just wondering...

Is it normal to be a passionate lover one night, and then be a woman's plaything another (or vice versa?)

Anyone else out there who is like this?

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 10 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • Noobalie
    9 years ago | pl

    I sure think its normal. I totally get what you mean because I am like that as well. (except I am female)I end up being in different moods sexually depending on the day. Sometimes I want it sweet and romantic, other times rough S&M type of stuff. Diversifying your sex life is a great way to keep things interesting. In my opinion anyway. :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    3
    3
  • Tommythecat.
    9 years ago | pl

    What? You can't be both at the same time?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    9 years ago | pl

    it's perfectly normal for one person to have varying levels of desire or sex drive.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0
  • tripw7
    9 years ago | pl

    Not really normal where I come from. Yes, you may want to do this but you would have to have the exact type of person to want to be part of what you like.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0