Is it normal that i am a people pleaser during sex?

I'm a guy and I find it difficult to get "hard" unless I know the girl is having a good time. During sex I don't really think about me but more about the girl's enjoyment. How can I be more of a selfish lover?

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  • Scorpio6921

    DON'T!!! caring about if the girl is getting pleased is what makes you good at sex. I have had about 6 girls come back to me time after time because I do all i can to please them before they even touch me. It is your weapon. learn to master it because if you don't and you turn into most of the ass hole guys that get a quick shot off and leave then you will never be a good lover.

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  • 3Swats

    Time will teach you. What kinda Lover u are.

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  • MESOMIKE

    Some are takers/others are givers. As long as you're both happy, then don't stir the pot! Enjoy!

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  • AREYOUBLINDTHEGAME

    lucky girl?

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