Is it normal that i am a dom bisexual woman?

I have always felt weird about my urges to dominate a man and a woman because I don't like the idea of submitting to anyone.

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85% Normal
Based on 26 votes (22 yes)
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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Are you worried about not finding someone because of it? If so, it's nothing to worry about. If you dive in, you'll realize you have way more options than any lesbian or straight chick will ever have in their lifetime. There will be plenty of men and women that'll be more than willing to submit to you. XD

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    • Curiouskitten444

      Im not op but thank you this gives me hope

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        You're welcome!
        :)

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  • fatok

    Sometimes I like being dominated by a women. Orgasm depravation is the best. I have also had a mistress bring a man in to use me.

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  • uniquefreak15

    That’s not weird at all, sister! I made an extremely lucrative Dominatrix business that I first discovered by working at a Dungeon in a large city. I’m a very sex positive, fun, introspective woman who had money coming in all of the time (I placed my own ads for myself), and my best friend did security for me. I also hired a photographer. This world is so hell bent on being so damn strict about gender and what different genders are “supposed” to automatically be like or behave like, or there’s something supposedly “wrong” with them, and, the brave soul (who is just being his or her true self), gets harassed, punished, tormented, bullied, etc. I have heard bitter, unhappy heterosexuals say they are tired of the so called “gay agenda!” Well, honey, there’s been a quite consistent “heterosexual agenda” before the beginning of time. You have the absolute right to not let anyone”dominate” you. There’s nothing wrong with that! Some unfortunate women have been raised to be submissive house slaves for their husband, as well as their personal chefs, sex toy, avid, alert listener etc. If it wasn’t for the feminist women’s lib movement in the 60’s us women would all still be barefoot n pregnant (and fuvking miserable too)!! “Your free to do what you want to do!” -Ultra Nate’! ;)

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  • Somenormie

    Yes you are totally normal.

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Me too!

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  • darefu

    Here we go again, depends on how you define normal.

    Your question really asks three questions or if three things are normal and if you are truly bi and not a troll you already know most of those answers.

    Being bi is NOT normal. There is getting to be more and more of us. Bi females definitely increasing in numbers, however, even high estimates put the percentage at about 5 to 8% of the world population as bi.

    Being dominate female over a male partner is less than 1%

    Being dominate female over another female, some would say this is or should be 50% but that's like saying every heterosexual relationship has a Dom and sub.

    In basic terms that may be true, however, as thought of in sexual terminology not every relationship or even every person is defined or can claim they are in to domination or submission.

    In true lesbian or FF relationships the numbers are not much different than MF. Verious reasons for this, too many to detail, but let's just say many see the MF as expecting Dom/Sub and they are looking for more of a shared or equal relationship.

    Either way there is nothing normal about it.

    Now if you're asking is it right or wrong, that's a different story. Nothing at all wrong with being bi, dom, sub, or any other sexual preference or style. Male or female as long as your partners agree and are not being forced.

    By the way I take pride in not being normal or average. Just enjoy yourself.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    So you're a domme. It's not weird that you don't like the idea of submitting to someone as a domme. Most doms/dommes don't. Doms/dommes and subs are really common but switches are rare. Some bisexual switches don't actually switch in one relationship but behave differently with each gender. I knew a woman who was a sub and dated almost nothing but male doms, but she liked being a domme to other female subs occasionally.

    Anyway, if what you're implying is that it makes you feel bad because you know you would hate it, just remember subs love it. As long as you're not forcing someone who isn't into it to comply there's nothing wrong with it.

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