Normal is not a sufficient measurement in this case.
What you went through would fuck with anybody. Not normal as this is not the normality, but normal because it is normality for some, like me for example. I've had similar experiences and outcomes.
My only current advice is try giving less of a fuck. It doesn't matter what other people think. Only what you think. And as much as that is cliched, you have continue to drive that social programming bullshit out of you that told you,you weren't/aren't good enough because people rejected you. And I know how hard that is because if you're like me it must feel at your very core.
Beyond treating what may be APD maybe you should try to get out more and meet more like minded people with similar interests. I've been putting things like this off but as of late I continue to grow distant from most of my friends and I think it's time to make some new ones.
Is it normal that I am a 22 year old male Virgin?
← View full post
Normal is not a sufficient measurement in this case.
What you went through would fuck with anybody. Not normal as this is not the normality, but normal because it is normality for some, like me for example. I've had similar experiences and outcomes.
My only current advice is try giving less of a fuck. It doesn't matter what other people think. Only what you think. And as much as that is cliched, you have continue to drive that social programming bullshit out of you that told you,you weren't/aren't good enough because people rejected you. And I know how hard that is because if you're like me it must feel at your very core.
Beyond treating what may be APD maybe you should try to get out more and meet more like minded people with similar interests. I've been putting things like this off but as of late I continue to grow distant from most of my friends and I think it's time to make some new ones.