Dont stress about it. That will doom you. Accept yourself and take care of your business. Thats what life is about, not women. Thats step 1.
When a woman in whom you're interested comes around, be assertive from the get-go. Dont wait for her to introduce herself to you or make a conversation interesting or ask for a second date. Relate to her and respect her as a person, but if you want it, take responsibility for making it happen. And if you follow step 1 and take care of business before worrying about girls, she'll see it, and know that you're ambitious and don't NEED her. Even if you WANT her, and are willing to do what it takes to get her. That personality trait matters much more than looks.
Then, as the relationship progresses, assert your agenda. Whether it be a committed relationship or sex, again, make it clear that you want it. Then the ball is in her court, because its not like you can make her do anything. At that point, you win or lose and move on.
Is it normal that I am 19 and haven't had a single relationship?
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Dont stress about it. That will doom you. Accept yourself and take care of your business. Thats what life is about, not women. Thats step 1.
When a woman in whom you're interested comes around, be assertive from the get-go. Dont wait for her to introduce herself to you or make a conversation interesting or ask for a second date. Relate to her and respect her as a person, but if you want it, take responsibility for making it happen. And if you follow step 1 and take care of business before worrying about girls, she'll see it, and know that you're ambitious and don't NEED her. Even if you WANT her, and are willing to do what it takes to get her. That personality trait matters much more than looks.
Then, as the relationship progresses, assert your agenda. Whether it be a committed relationship or sex, again, make it clear that you want it. Then the ball is in her court, because its not like you can make her do anything. At that point, you win or lose and move on.