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Every time before i go to school i always think negative thoughts about me, like i cant dress properly, every body knows whats cool except me, but my worse thought is that everybody is staring at me critizing or laughing at what i do and wear in their minds and its a really bad feeling i hate it and i always go through in school everyday. Could you people please give really good information in how to conquer these thoughts.
I used to feel that way. I suppose you have been bullied in school before or had some sort of traumatic experience? Because I'm sure the reason why I felt that way was because I used to bullied in school. I was known as a slut and people used to talk about me on the internet all the time. It got me really upset because what they said weren't true at all. I knew who I was. After 4 years, I still feel a little pain when I look back but you know what? People grow up and everyone moves on. You'll see that too soon, I hope. I had a hard time getting past it but I'm glad for the ride because I think I'm turning out os a stronger person and it taught me a lot. I knew how to handle things better and I became better. I wish you the best, I hope you learn to have confidence in yourself and learn to be positive. If I'm not wrong, no one actually looks at you the way you think they do. :P
Thank you so much and yea i guess your right i was verbally bullied before and it really messed up my mind and it still is but thanks to you i dont feel like im the only one like this anymore and im definitely going to think positive and i am going to have more self confidence.
My friends say I live in my own wee bubble as I never hear any critiism or see any dirty looks etc. I say it's coz I don't always wear my glasses and I'm half deaf. If you imagine yourself surrounded by a bubble and sing to yourself, then you won't think of anyone trying to upset you! This is what I do and I always think everyone is lovely!
Anyway, I don't think I'm that important for anyone to notice or comment on.