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Is it normal that even when I'm with people I love I feel alone?
Whenever I have plans with someone and the end up changing I feel alone because I feel ditched. Also I always have this feeling that no one understands me and I that's just all i want someone to understand who I truly am. I'm a person who has these deep feelings of everything and I tend to get hurt easily. No matter what I always feel alone and I don't know what to do.
You'd be surprised to learn that even the most confident and popular people feel alone a lot of the time.
Funnily enough, once you identify this it can make you more confident. You don't need anyone if you want to go anywhere - cinema, club, concert. You will always meet up with other people who feel the same way!
Good luck!
Awww! I really understand how you feel. I think everyone wants someone to understand who they really are. It is frustrating for me because I feel like all anyone cares about is my appearance but not me or what I have to say or how I feel. Guys seem to only like me based on appearance and my family scrutinizes my appearance. To my mom and grandma I'm not good enough unless I am underweight. Obviously your situation is different but I understand it's easy to feel alone and that no one cares about who you really are. That is how you know a good friend or boyfriend when you find one. You will be able to talk for hours instead of just a few minutes. Hang in there because I'm sure you will meet some good people who do care. In the meantime write a journal about how you are feeling and maybe some goals or ideas about meeting new people who have similar interests. (For example if you love animals try getting a job at a pet store-stupid example but you get the point) They say a few close friends are worth more than a lot of friends so don't be intimidated or feel lonley because of your number of friends. Go for quality not quantity.