Is it normal that i act two diffrent ways toward my friends and family

You yell at them just because they make you mad? You're what they call a problem child. A spoiled self-centered kid. Grow up!

It's just that she's both judgmental and nice, she asks me to do stuff and doesn't tell me why or how to do it so if I do it wrong she yells at me which makes me yell at her but if I do it right she is content for the moment, untill she finds something else to either yell at me for, or for me to do btw this is my mom I'm talkin about

Normal but not good..... you need self control.

Amen to that

Normal, especially if you have a strict or judgemental family.

me too

I think it is normal to do this at some point. But, I think you eventually will grow out of it. Or at least, it would be a good thing to grow out of.