Is it normal that i accedentily look at people’s certain areas

Normal, but you may get some very negative responses if you're staring at women's breasts or men's crotches. Sounds like a habit you need to break, maybe by concentrating on their hair or their chin if you're awkward about eye to eye contact.

When women say to me “my eyes are up here” I respond with “I know, but your tits are down there”.

I stare at girls asses too much but at least they can’t see me do it, just everyone else

It's normal, and some women expect it. I have several hot, fit-bodied bartender friends, and they really do it up for Halloween. Best tip night of the year for most of them. They wear sexy costumes, usually low-cut and very, more than usual, cleavage-baring tops, and tight, ass-clinging pants. The girls expect looks, leers, and eyes to be on everything but their faces. Maybe it's different because it's their job and for tips, but, they still fully expect to have all eyes, even women guests, on their..Parts.

It’s impolite but normal.