I understand what you are saying, but secrets have a habit of comeing out. If you continue on your current course of action you could end up having to choose between them. My advice would be to speak to your dad and explain you have been in contact with her. Tell him she has made advances towards you and that you feel quite flattered by that. Ask him if he thinks you should get involved with her. Be honest about your feelings and tell him you don't want her to come between the two of you. Find out what he thinks about it all.
Okay I’m thinking about doing that then. I just know that dad will likely not like it and I feel embarrassed to tell him. I love her so much. It’s kind of weird that I’m involved with her because I still look at her like my mom.
Wouldn't he be devastated then if he were to somehow find out? You would've betrayed your father, his trust and your relationship. I don't think you actually give a damn about your father. I think you are only caring about yourself.
I love my dad. I don’t really want him to know right now because he probably won’t like it and I don’t want him to hurt. I think if I wait awhile to tell him, he will be a little more accepting about it. I also love her and don’t want to lose her.
IIN that I’m seeing my ex-stepmom
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I value my relationship with my dad. That’s why I don’t want him knowing. I also want to be with her.
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I understand what you are saying, but secrets have a habit of comeing out. If you continue on your current course of action you could end up having to choose between them. My advice would be to speak to your dad and explain you have been in contact with her. Tell him she has made advances towards you and that you feel quite flattered by that. Ask him if he thinks you should get involved with her. Be honest about your feelings and tell him you don't want her to come between the two of you. Find out what he thinks about it all.
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Okay I’m thinking about doing that then. I just know that dad will likely not like it and I feel embarrassed to tell him. I love her so much. It’s kind of weird that I’m involved with her because I still look at her like my mom.
Wouldn't he be devastated then if he were to somehow find out? You would've betrayed your father, his trust and your relationship. I don't think you actually give a damn about your father. I think you are only caring about yourself.
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I love my dad. I don’t really want him to know right now because he probably won’t like it and I don’t want him to hurt. I think if I wait awhile to tell him, he will be a little more accepting about it. I also love her and don’t want to lose her.