I also have just 1 friend and my girlfriend, so I don't talk to many people. We had a long period where we fought a lot due to expectations. We used to talk a lot when we got in relationship but later she got busy with her life and we weren't getting enough time. I wasn't used to this separation so it created a lot fights between us cuz I wasn't getting same attention from her.
On her first birthday I did a lot and on my birthday she didn't do anything. Actually she did but I was too impatient and compared the efforts instead of appreciating what she did.
She always greets me good morning, asks if I had breakfast, lunch etc but I never ask those things. Because I assumed she is hungry all the time(sometimes right after meal she says she is hungry) so she will always eat on time. She thought I don't care as much about her and assumed I don't love her enough.
With time we understood each other and don't burden one another with expectations. We very rarely argue now because we accepted we have our different ways to show love.
You haven't written many examples of what you do and she doesn't. But expecting her to call you just as much as you do will just lead to fights and misunderstanding. If she doesn't call you at all or doesn't do anything for you then she might not be right girl for you.
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I also have just 1 friend and my girlfriend, so I don't talk to many people. We had a long period where we fought a lot due to expectations. We used to talk a lot when we got in relationship but later she got busy with her life and we weren't getting enough time. I wasn't used to this separation so it created a lot fights between us cuz I wasn't getting same attention from her.
On her first birthday I did a lot and on my birthday she didn't do anything. Actually she did but I was too impatient and compared the efforts instead of appreciating what she did.
She always greets me good morning, asks if I had breakfast, lunch etc but I never ask those things. Because I assumed she is hungry all the time(sometimes right after meal she says she is hungry) so she will always eat on time. She thought I don't care as much about her and assumed I don't love her enough.
With time we understood each other and don't burden one another with expectations. We very rarely argue now because we accepted we have our different ways to show love.
You haven't written many examples of what you do and she doesn't. But expecting her to call you just as much as you do will just lead to fights and misunderstanding. If she doesn't call you at all or doesn't do anything for you then she might not be right girl for you.