it's not... terribly uncommon? you see that sometimes in the True Crime community. I understand using it as a fantasy myself, but nothing more than that. I suppose you have to nail down your values - get off psychologically and sexually from volatile, violent men? - or a safe, healthy sexual life, with people who may humor your fantasies but won't actually snuff you. I understand the danger and uncertainty is part of the appeal. Accept the nature of your attraction, maybe talk to an open and non judgemental source, and practice self awareness. Don't purposely put yourself in the web of abusive men, unless you genuinely value that experience over your life. And if you do, please carefully review why you value that over everything else. Self inquiry is important in all things, but in this especially. Good luck
IIN that I’m attracted to murderers/criminals?
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it's not... terribly uncommon? you see that sometimes in the True Crime community. I understand using it as a fantasy myself, but nothing more than that. I suppose you have to nail down your values - get off psychologically and sexually from volatile, violent men? - or a safe, healthy sexual life, with people who may humor your fantasies but won't actually snuff you. I understand the danger and uncertainty is part of the appeal. Accept the nature of your attraction, maybe talk to an open and non judgemental source, and practice self awareness. Don't purposely put yourself in the web of abusive men, unless you genuinely value that experience over your life. And if you do, please carefully review why you value that over everything else. Self inquiry is important in all things, but in this especially. Good luck