Let's not get hooked up whether it was right for you to go through his phone or not - he's either cheated, cheating or going to cheat. If you hadn't found those messages, he would have sealed the deal with Tammi as soon as she let him. He will already have let Tammi know that he nearly got busted and to be more careful. I am a seasoned, serial ex-cheater. When a cheater is confronted, the very first tactic to deploy is the deflection. 'You shouldn't be looking through my phone' etc. They will harp on about a lack of trust. Its all a deflection. Which is worse - looking at your husband's phone, which shouldn't be a problem, or meeting a girl when out of town behind your back? Do the math. You've never heard of her, yet she is supposed to be 'like a sister' to him? I call BS!
Sorry but you know it's true.
I second the last part of what Pace said ^^^^^^ I never thought of that. If she's like a sister to him, why haven't you heard of her, and why is he meeting her without you knowing?
IIN that husband deleted texts after I snooped due to a suspicion?
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Let's not get hooked up whether it was right for you to go through his phone or not - he's either cheated, cheating or going to cheat. If you hadn't found those messages, he would have sealed the deal with Tammi as soon as she let him. He will already have let Tammi know that he nearly got busted and to be more careful. I am a seasoned, serial ex-cheater. When a cheater is confronted, the very first tactic to deploy is the deflection. 'You shouldn't be looking through my phone' etc. They will harp on about a lack of trust. Its all a deflection. Which is worse - looking at your husband's phone, which shouldn't be a problem, or meeting a girl when out of town behind your back? Do the math. You've never heard of her, yet she is supposed to be 'like a sister' to him? I call BS!
Sorry but you know it's true.
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I second the last part of what Pace said ^^^^^^ I never thought of that. If she's like a sister to him, why haven't you heard of her, and why is he meeting her without you knowing?