IIN that husband deleted texts after I snooped due to a suspicion?

I agree with your first statement, and this is what I decided to do.

As far as sex, I have always been the one that wants it more frequently.

And he would be the first to say that I am not a nagger, and give him plenty of space and freedom.

We had a lengthy heart to heart (which never happens) and identified that there was a disconnect between us, and we need to talk more often. Thanks for input!