I wouldn't be upset with you if I overheard you return the same comments after what you had to listen to! I think they are projecting onto you their own insecurities and issues with weight . They are trying to normalize their weight as the standard and make you the outcast or cause for concern . I think they feel better saying you eat too much and it makes them sick because in their mind they now put out the image that , they don't eat to much and that if they are overweight it must be some other reason they have no control over . It must be a health issue which a lot of people like to use as a safety net but in actuality .. it's rarely the case . There are some people with genuine causes who cant control weight but the numbers are super low compared to what these excuses users would like to think . I absolutely can't stand someone doing this and I would have said something but I respect your standpoint in keeping quiet about it . If it's okay and socially acceptable to call people skinny or toothpicks or unhealthy because of their lean frame .. then It should be okay for the flip side of the coin as well . I think if anything it only promotes poor health if everyone walks around on glass and these people never have to consciously acknowledge the danger . It's okay to tell someone to stop drinking booze so often , stop being so skinny , put down that cigarette , stop drinking coffee everyday and don't use marijuana but why are these people left untouched and out of the equation ? I am not saying go around maliciously bashing overweight people but I am saying why is it okay for them and others to make these comments but it's this unwritten rule not to tell someone to stop stuffing cheeseburgers with extra bacon down their throat followed by a huge pop and sundae ? why isn't that okay ? I think if someone want's to dish it out , let them hear it back . If they are upset they aren't at an advantage after their slander ... they should have put the half pound of cheese poutine down and triple burger and picked up a set of weights and worked out . This is only one mans opinion and maybe some will defy it or not agree with it but I see the logic here .
IIN that heavy people openly criticize thinner people?
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I wouldn't be upset with you if I overheard you return the same comments after what you had to listen to! I think they are projecting onto you their own insecurities and issues with weight . They are trying to normalize their weight as the standard and make you the outcast or cause for concern . I think they feel better saying you eat too much and it makes them sick because in their mind they now put out the image that , they don't eat to much and that if they are overweight it must be some other reason they have no control over . It must be a health issue which a lot of people like to use as a safety net but in actuality .. it's rarely the case . There are some people with genuine causes who cant control weight but the numbers are super low compared to what these excuses users would like to think . I absolutely can't stand someone doing this and I would have said something but I respect your standpoint in keeping quiet about it . If it's okay and socially acceptable to call people skinny or toothpicks or unhealthy because of their lean frame .. then It should be okay for the flip side of the coin as well . I think if anything it only promotes poor health if everyone walks around on glass and these people never have to consciously acknowledge the danger . It's okay to tell someone to stop drinking booze so often , stop being so skinny , put down that cigarette , stop drinking coffee everyday and don't use marijuana but why are these people left untouched and out of the equation ? I am not saying go around maliciously bashing overweight people but I am saying why is it okay for them and others to make these comments but it's this unwritten rule not to tell someone to stop stuffing cheeseburgers with extra bacon down their throat followed by a huge pop and sundae ? why isn't that okay ? I think if someone want's to dish it out , let them hear it back . If they are upset they aren't at an advantage after their slander ... they should have put the half pound of cheese poutine down and triple burger and picked up a set of weights and worked out . This is only one mans opinion and maybe some will defy it or not agree with it but I see the logic here .
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seriously, I'm telling you you type a lot O.O
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it made me laugh that you found me in another thread with a long comment! I really don't always type that long xD