Is it normal that he's treating me this way?

Um. Don't have sex with him. It's clear you feel it wouldn't be right, so...trust your instincts. You are right.

What he's doing is really common for someone who is just generally confused (I couldn't tell you why). If he's confusing you, you can trust that he is confused.

What he did was rush through emotional intimacy to get to the good stuff, and then withdrew. You didn't give a time frame, so if this happened in a short amount of time, you can assume it's true. Both men and women do this, usually when they either can't (because they are confused) or don't want to (are cunning) make a real connection. They will either conscientiously or unconsciously pull these kinds of tactics.

Don't trust when people say what they want. Watch them prove it (he didn't). Trust people when they say what they don't want, because that's only the tip of the iceberg of things they won't say.

Forget this dude. He's a waste of time and your energy.