Just because you've got naughtiness on your mind, doesn't mean he has too. Yes it's disappointing when you want sex and your lover doesn't, but it's also perfectly normal to occasionally desire different things in the moment. That shouldn't make you feel lonely, you're still sleeping beside him, you still love each other. His penis not being in your vagina at that moment makes no difference.
It doesn't mean he no longer finds you attractive and it's a pointless thing to get upset about. Think about it - how would you feel if you weren't 'up for it' because you were tired, and he stayed up late posting on an internet forum asking if it was normal you wouldn't give him sex that night?
Is it normal that he's too tired for sex?
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YES IT'S NORMAL!
Just because you've got naughtiness on your mind, doesn't mean he has too. Yes it's disappointing when you want sex and your lover doesn't, but it's also perfectly normal to occasionally desire different things in the moment. That shouldn't make you feel lonely, you're still sleeping beside him, you still love each other. His penis not being in your vagina at that moment makes no difference.
It doesn't mean he no longer finds you attractive and it's a pointless thing to get upset about. Think about it - how would you feel if you weren't 'up for it' because you were tired, and he stayed up late posting on an internet forum asking if it was normal you wouldn't give him sex that night?