I also just read another of your comments from above regarding unemployment and house cleaning and I have to say that reminds me of myself as well. I also dated yet another person whom I ended up living with for almost 4 years, and she didnt think housework or cleaning was very important as well, and while it is earth shakingly important, it does need to get done on a regular basis WITHOUT waiting until the last minute. So I can kinda understand his frustration regarding that somewhat. It seems to me his overall problem is that he wants you to be more proactive in general. More proactive regarding a career, more proactive with chores, and more proactive with your people skills.
Try it out, its really not that hard at all. And once you see that it isnt hard you will be so relieved and feel so silly that you were so intimidated by it as well.
Is it normal that he's embarrassed of me?
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I also just read another of your comments from above regarding unemployment and house cleaning and I have to say that reminds me of myself as well. I also dated yet another person whom I ended up living with for almost 4 years, and she didnt think housework or cleaning was very important as well, and while it is earth shakingly important, it does need to get done on a regular basis WITHOUT waiting until the last minute. So I can kinda understand his frustration regarding that somewhat. It seems to me his overall problem is that he wants you to be more proactive in general. More proactive regarding a career, more proactive with chores, and more proactive with your people skills.
Try it out, its really not that hard at all. And once you see that it isnt hard you will be so relieved and feel so silly that you were so intimidated by it as well.
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*it ISNT earth shakingly important I meant.