It' only going to get worse....wait til he starts beating you. Sounds like a control freak and if u got married, the beatings will start. Find someone else who accepts you for who you are.
I agree that he's controlling and has a temper problem and he admits to that too. He says that there's nothing he can do about it right now and that if I'm not trying hard enough to change myself, then I should just deal with it. I don't think he'd beat me, he's never threatened me before and his family knows that he doesn't have a violent history. He's more self destructive than anything, though he does lash out verbally in hurtful ways.
Thanks for your blunt honesty, I've been considering leaving this relationship for a while. I do know that if things escalate to the level you're talking about there wouldn't be any questions asked, I'd just leave. I feel down right now, but there's no way I'm going to let myself become battered.
Is it normal that he's embarrassed of me?
← View full post
It' only going to get worse....wait til he starts beating you. Sounds like a control freak and if u got married, the beatings will start. Find someone else who accepts you for who you are.
--
Anonymous Post Author
11 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
I agree that he's controlling and has a temper problem and he admits to that too. He says that there's nothing he can do about it right now and that if I'm not trying hard enough to change myself, then I should just deal with it. I don't think he'd beat me, he's never threatened me before and his family knows that he doesn't have a violent history. He's more self destructive than anything, though he does lash out verbally in hurtful ways.
--
wigsplitz
11 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
3
3
Dump him.
--
Anonymous Post Author
11 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
Thanks for your blunt honesty, I've been considering leaving this relationship for a while. I do know that if things escalate to the level you're talking about there wouldn't be any questions asked, I'd just leave. I feel down right now, but there's no way I'm going to let myself become battered.