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We have been dating for 5 months now and he for some reason always goes for marathon sessions. Sometimes he loses the erection. Is this normal? Is it because he gets so exhausted? What else could it be?
My ex never went placid on me during sex. Could this be because he never lasted this long?
Hmmm yes. I realise this is wayyyy longer than average. I'm just a bit concerned as to how "sustainable" it is and how he will react when he can no longer go this long?
Actually, I don't even know how he does it for this long?
I don't know about an hour - everyone is different - but yeah, you can lose your hard-on after a long time despite still being turned on.
Maybe he's nervous, stressed, exhausted, depressed or a number of other things that are contributing to his delay & therefore losing his boner or maybe marathon sessions are normal for him.
Have you spoken to him about it?
Is he surprised or upset when it happens?
We have not talked about it. How would I even bring it up and what would I say? :(
He does not act surprised but does get a little upset/disappointed.
The first time we ever had sex he wasn't very hard... I think his time he was extremely nervous. But from then on he will be hard but sometime loses it after a while. Sometimes it comes back but a couple of times it couldn't.
Also, he usually loses his hard on when I'm on top... And he tells me that's his favourite position?????
However, he once came after 15mins which to him was very quick(?) while I was on top. He said I "sent him over the edge". Does that mean I don't send him over the edge other times? Lol
By the way, I wasn't doing anything different that time....
Are you sucking him off often enough or is a guy doing it and you are unaware.
I usually shoot my load after 45 minutes. Don't whine. You got an extra 15 minutes for free.
You're upset he goes soft after a straight hour of sex? Pfft. First world problems
Hey, at least you got an hour. My last man came as soon as he got the tip in.