Is it normal that he is being with other girls?

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Hey guys, i met this guy 2 months ago..since the first day i knew that he had a lot of girls before me, but he told me that he likes me and didnt feel what he feels towards me for a long time..

now he is very honest guy and he told me that he might be with some other girls while he is with me, even if we are in a happy relationship..because that would be just sexual thing for him...

he is jamaican btw, they are kinda horny people..he is a free spirit 100%, so open minded..

he is great to me, i never have to worry about anything when im with him, he is caring, cares about small details...

and the other day he was performing, cause he is like a reggae performer/singer/musician..and he was dancing to these girls in a naughty way, and i feel so weird about it :/ kind of jealous..

he also has a kid with one girl..i was open minded when he told me that and didnt judge, i understand those kinds of things..
even tho that was sooo weird to me when he first told me, i almost wanted to cry

I dont know what to do...should i break up before i start growing even bigger feelings or what..i cant be with him knowing that he could be with other girls even if its just sexually

Thank you for reading this long ass message :D lots of love ❤️

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  • Ratmanforelife
    6 years ago | pl

    Does he do redemption song by Bob Marley?

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    Sounds like he wants a polyamorus relationship and you will have to decide if that's what you want and discuss it with him.

    I have a lot of female friends too but I don't have current sexual relations with them.
    However if I decided on a girlfriend it would be a deal breaker if she got jealous of my friends.
    Everyone I know, knows each other though.

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  • RoadHog
    6 years ago | pl

    I think if you aren't comfortable with him being with other women, you should leave him.
    It's all up to how you feel and what you're comfortable with.

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  • BabySilver
    6 years ago | pl

    ugh is all I can muster.

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  • sodapop123
    6 years ago | pl

    If thats what you want, then cool. If you dont want that, get outta there asap

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