It depends on the context, and his level of fascination with the ordeal.
For example, let's say he brought it up randomly and went through all the details vividly as if his sisters were 9 - 11 years old again yesterday; then you may have a problem you should avoid.
Also, little girls shouldn't start out with tampons because it'll hurt, feel uncomfortable, and take some effort getting it in there; which is why little girls should start with pads until they feel ready for tampons. However, men are men and will always go the route that's more interesting to them; if he was really a caring brother, he would have done his research thoroughly and opt for pads so she can get into the habit of taking care of her feminine needs alone.
Ask why didn't he just have her use pads? They make pads of all different sizes and flows, and pads are the first things you see before the tampons. Like you have to actually search for tampon boxes, but pads are just right there. Also, ask if he got the proper size tampons because there are different sizes of those too. If he kept getting big ones, just didn't care, or fell back on "our mother wasn't around," then it's more than likely he was purposely setting it up so that he HAD to help them. We have the internet, and he could have researched, so there's no excuse on why he had to continue this routine other than he wanting it to continue.
IIN that he helped his sisters with their tampons?
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It depends on the context, and his level of fascination with the ordeal.
For example, let's say he brought it up randomly and went through all the details vividly as if his sisters were 9 - 11 years old again yesterday; then you may have a problem you should avoid.
Also, little girls shouldn't start out with tampons because it'll hurt, feel uncomfortable, and take some effort getting it in there; which is why little girls should start with pads until they feel ready for tampons. However, men are men and will always go the route that's more interesting to them; if he was really a caring brother, he would have done his research thoroughly and opt for pads so she can get into the habit of taking care of her feminine needs alone.
Ask why didn't he just have her use pads? They make pads of all different sizes and flows, and pads are the first things you see before the tampons. Like you have to actually search for tampon boxes, but pads are just right there. Also, ask if he got the proper size tampons because there are different sizes of those too. If he kept getting big ones, just didn't care, or fell back on "our mother wasn't around," then it's more than likely he was purposely setting it up so that he HAD to help them. We have the internet, and he could have researched, so there's no excuse on why he had to continue this routine other than he wanting it to continue.
Good luck OP, trust your intuition.