He is supposed to be there for 1 year and after that I will MAYBE join him next year I am not really sure about that ... (and that is another problem)
I am sure he didnt meent someone I know him..
But he is busy with studying a lot maybe but I think it's tooo much.. Last time I told him that if I dont miss him or if he doesnt love me anymore he should say it, so he replies that if I shouldnt wait from him many efforts he said he talk to me when he can and if I thinkt that i dont miss him or he doesnt love me that is crazy...
But I caaant stand that I feel like i am not longer one of the most important thing in his life
Being separated from the person you love could drive anyone crazy. You are probably use to him being around talking to you all the time, but now he is far away and its hard to deal with. I'm pretty sure you are still one of the most important things in his life, but so is his education. With education he can get a good job and hopefully support himself and you.
Going one year without him is going to be hard to do, and if you can you should join him next year. I mean if you are really serious about this relationship and you want to be with him. If my significant other were to be leaving the country I'd go with him in a heartbeat.
I can't really imagine what you must feel because I never been a situation like this. I went a 3 days without talking to my boyfriend and I was feeling awful.What you feel must be 100 times worse.
He hasn't been gone that long, so I'm sure if you give it a little time you'll adjust better and won't feel so upset and it'll be easier to deal with. ^^
Is it normal that he changed that much ?
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He is supposed to be there for 1 year and after that I will MAYBE join him next year I am not really sure about that ... (and that is another problem)
I am sure he didnt meent someone I know him..
But he is busy with studying a lot maybe but I think it's tooo much.. Last time I told him that if I dont miss him or if he doesnt love me anymore he should say it, so he replies that if I shouldnt wait from him many efforts he said he talk to me when he can and if I thinkt that i dont miss him or he doesnt love me that is crazy...
But I caaant stand that I feel like i am not longer one of the most important thing in his life
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Being separated from the person you love could drive anyone crazy. You are probably use to him being around talking to you all the time, but now he is far away and its hard to deal with. I'm pretty sure you are still one of the most important things in his life, but so is his education. With education he can get a good job and hopefully support himself and you.
Going one year without him is going to be hard to do, and if you can you should join him next year. I mean if you are really serious about this relationship and you want to be with him. If my significant other were to be leaving the country I'd go with him in a heartbeat.
I can't really imagine what you must feel because I never been a situation like this. I went a 3 days without talking to my boyfriend and I was feeling awful.What you feel must be 100 times worse.
He hasn't been gone that long, so I'm sure if you give it a little time you'll adjust better and won't feel so upset and it'll be easier to deal with. ^^