Is it normal that guys stop liking me whenever i start to like them?

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Most of the time if I find out a guy likes me, I end up realizing that I like them too. But then they stop liking me almost immediately and move on to someone else and I end up still liking them.

I've never had a boyfriend.

Is It Normal?
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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago | pl

    Review how you change your behaviour towards them, or have a friend tell you honestly(and don't be pissed).
    Most likely, the moment you believe a guy likes you and you "realize" you like them too, you start acting differently towards them.
    Also make sure you don't mistake a "friendly liking and slight sexual interest" for "wishing for a commited long-term relationship". With friends, sometimes there's a certain atmosphere with a bit of flirting etc., but that does not mean anybody is up for something serious. Mistaking such situations may have a reverse effect.

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  • poof!gone122
    11 years ago | pl

    That happens to me all the time and I really don't understand it at all.

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  • chicken471bologna
    11 years ago | pl

    Because those guys just wanted you for sex. They didn't want to have any relationship with you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Well it could just be a simple misunderstanding when it comes to these guys that you end up liking.

    Do you have a penis just like they do?

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