If they can't handle the fact that you have been with people before them then they are insecure and have low self-esteem and that is their problem. I've been with guys who have had more partners than me and all that says to me is that he has experience.
I have been with the same number of men as you within about the same time frame and I don't regret it. I was (and still am) young, I had fun, I always stayed protected and I'm pretty good in the sack because of it. If a guy doesn't like it then he can go fuck himself.
This shit will blow over eventually. I come from a small town so I know for a fact that within a few months or even weeks, someone else will do something that those dumb, bored fucks who obviously live the most boring lives on the planet (they'd have to be to be shocked by a teenager having *gasp* intercourse!) can sink their teeth into in their continued, pathetic attempts to believe that they can claim some moral superiority to the riff raff. Everyone I know from my high school who gave me shit over my sexual habits had kids by about 21 and most of them have deadbeat daddies and dead end jobs, no real college education - pretty much everything they assumed would happen to me due to my lifestyle happened to them.
Own it. Don't be ashamed of being a sexually active human being. I tell them "yeah, I did it, it was wild". When they ask why? "I like to keep things interesting. I stay safe. You know... the whole condoms and birth control thing that these backwards doctors kept talking about? It's totally legit.". In my experience, they'll back off once they realize that what they say really doesn't fucking matter to anyone but them.
Anyone who cant handle someone number of partners is insecure and got low self esteem? Some big sour grapes you are eating. Is this how you console yourself when anybody rejects you for being promiscuous? At least have the guts to call a spade a spade. There are many guys that will absolutely love her skills and experience in the bedroom and not care about how many partners she had but matter of factly most will reject OP for her number of partners. Surely not all who dont prefer her will be cause of self esteem and insecurity? Ever heard of the word preferences? If her ex was promiscuous but couldnt handle her promiscuity then THAT is weak and pathetic. If you have been with promiscuous guys and had no problem its because you lived same lifestyle and it would be hypocritical if you had a problem. Yea there are people like that but dont blanket statement everyone who wants their partner to be same experience as them just cause it helps you sleep at night
IIN that guys probably wont date me because my past?
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If they can't handle the fact that you have been with people before them then they are insecure and have low self-esteem and that is their problem. I've been with guys who have had more partners than me and all that says to me is that he has experience.
I have been with the same number of men as you within about the same time frame and I don't regret it. I was (and still am) young, I had fun, I always stayed protected and I'm pretty good in the sack because of it. If a guy doesn't like it then he can go fuck himself.
This shit will blow over eventually. I come from a small town so I know for a fact that within a few months or even weeks, someone else will do something that those dumb, bored fucks who obviously live the most boring lives on the planet (they'd have to be to be shocked by a teenager having *gasp* intercourse!) can sink their teeth into in their continued, pathetic attempts to believe that they can claim some moral superiority to the riff raff. Everyone I know from my high school who gave me shit over my sexual habits had kids by about 21 and most of them have deadbeat daddies and dead end jobs, no real college education - pretty much everything they assumed would happen to me due to my lifestyle happened to them.
Own it. Don't be ashamed of being a sexually active human being. I tell them "yeah, I did it, it was wild". When they ask why? "I like to keep things interesting. I stay safe. You know... the whole condoms and birth control thing that these backwards doctors kept talking about? It's totally legit.". In my experience, they'll back off once they realize that what they say really doesn't fucking matter to anyone but them.
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Anyone who cant handle someone number of partners is insecure and got low self esteem? Some big sour grapes you are eating. Is this how you console yourself when anybody rejects you for being promiscuous? At least have the guts to call a spade a spade. There are many guys that will absolutely love her skills and experience in the bedroom and not care about how many partners she had but matter of factly most will reject OP for her number of partners. Surely not all who dont prefer her will be cause of self esteem and insecurity? Ever heard of the word preferences? If her ex was promiscuous but couldnt handle her promiscuity then THAT is weak and pathetic. If you have been with promiscuous guys and had no problem its because you lived same lifestyle and it would be hypocritical if you had a problem. Yea there are people like that but dont blanket statement everyone who wants their partner to be same experience as them just cause it helps you sleep at night
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Yes omg you're right how could I be so blind