Is it normal that guys don't like me

You know, this is something that irritates the crap out of me.

You have women that sit there and complain when people complain about being put in the friendzone that say "Well you done this, you done that, you obviously showed interest", and to the women doing those nice things, in their mind they were only being nice.

Then you get women that sit there and say "What the hell, I done all these nice things (that so many complain about by saying it does not mean she is interested in you sexually), and that men are stupid for not accepting these "subtle" hints that you complain are just you being "nice" when a guy that you have done it to is one you are not interested in.

This is not a case of "men are too dumb to understand hints", this is a case of "Men no longer accept kindness as romantic interest", and this is because so many women have complained when men assume the girl likes them and were leading them on for those nice actions that were the same, however not intended for the same outcome.

Women, understand this. Being nice does not mean you are showing interest. We should not have to assume you like us just for being a kind human being and smiling at someone, especially when you complain when people assume you mean that in a hitting on manner, yet say you were just being kind.

You cannot sit there and say men are dumb for women saying "Oh, being nice means I am interested in you", while the other half say "Just because I am nice to you does not mean I am interested in you".

Want a hint, women? Initiate. Stop trying to think guys should have to do all of the initiating, risking the rejection, because guys are less willing nowadays, and you cannot complain about that given that you are exactly the same.

If guys shouldn't think you belong in the kitchen (rightfully so), then you shouldn't expect men to do all the initiating, because both are gender roles, and guys don't want to risk rejection anymore.