I'm partially there with you, like I believe I'm a nice person, yet it doesn't seem like girls really like me, beyond friendship. I think that when it comes to affection and wanting something more then it sounds like your problem is that you're being a good friend. And when it comes to being a good friend, nothing wrong with that, but you shouldn't expect to seen as anything differently, I'm speaking from experience. Giving someone a cupcake doesn't really seem like a gesture to say "I like you" well beyond friendship, it just means that you're a cool friend. Guys are blunt and we can't really take hints. I should say that some guys do interpret kindness with infatuation; however, it's usually the guys that you don't like or feel the same about that will probably like you. Honestly though getting the person that you like is usually pretty tough. You sound nice, but sometimes being nice could make it tough for guys to see you as more than a friend. Maybe I'm wrong, I'm speaking from my own experiences with girls since I have felt the same way as you so I feel like I can empathize with you. If you're waiting though for a guy to make the move well then honestly you might be waiting for awhile, on that I could be wrong. But I feel that waiting for a person to make the move isn't such a good idea because chances are that they're wishing the same about you, so in the end you have two people scared to make the move and neither will know how the other feels. Honestly I say just try to make a move, I mean I think most guys will be flattered if a girl asked them out. Besides you sound like a great girl, so whatever guy has his hand in yours, well that's a lucky fellow.
Is it normal that guys don't like me
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I'm partially there with you, like I believe I'm a nice person, yet it doesn't seem like girls really like me, beyond friendship. I think that when it comes to affection and wanting something more then it sounds like your problem is that you're being a good friend. And when it comes to being a good friend, nothing wrong with that, but you shouldn't expect to seen as anything differently, I'm speaking from experience. Giving someone a cupcake doesn't really seem like a gesture to say "I like you" well beyond friendship, it just means that you're a cool friend. Guys are blunt and we can't really take hints. I should say that some guys do interpret kindness with infatuation; however, it's usually the guys that you don't like or feel the same about that will probably like you. Honestly though getting the person that you like is usually pretty tough. You sound nice, but sometimes being nice could make it tough for guys to see you as more than a friend. Maybe I'm wrong, I'm speaking from my own experiences with girls since I have felt the same way as you so I feel like I can empathize with you. If you're waiting though for a guy to make the move well then honestly you might be waiting for awhile, on that I could be wrong. But I feel that waiting for a person to make the move isn't such a good idea because chances are that they're wishing the same about you, so in the end you have two people scared to make the move and neither will know how the other feels. Honestly I say just try to make a move, I mean I think most guys will be flattered if a girl asked them out. Besides you sound like a great girl, so whatever guy has his hand in yours, well that's a lucky fellow.