I am a bisexual guy and in my goth punk years, I noticed the more androgynous and extreme I was, the more bisexual women were interested. It was weird. Bi dudes of course didn't respond to me because I hit the social goldmine with goth/punk and the Marilyn Manson, teen angsty, Satanic panic sort of put me in a place to be popular.
When I was looking more like a guy (think, the Crow), I tended to attract an equal percentage of both men and women. The more pretty and effeminate I looked (Brian Molko from Placebo is close...) , the more I was chased from the bisexual women. And usually the really beautiful, barbie looking ones. I tend to come off as a former athlete etc in my work. IDK why.
Are you a "nice girl" type?? That will put people off. I don't find that to be flattering with either gender. I find that there are places where I am great with finding other bi people and other places are like social hell for me because it's all gay and straight people.
IIN that guys don't find me hot, but girls do?
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I am a bisexual guy and in my goth punk years, I noticed the more androgynous and extreme I was, the more bisexual women were interested. It was weird. Bi dudes of course didn't respond to me because I hit the social goldmine with goth/punk and the Marilyn Manson, teen angsty, Satanic panic sort of put me in a place to be popular.
When I was looking more like a guy (think, the Crow), I tended to attract an equal percentage of both men and women. The more pretty and effeminate I looked (Brian Molko from Placebo is close...) , the more I was chased from the bisexual women. And usually the really beautiful, barbie looking ones. I tend to come off as a former athlete etc in my work. IDK why.
Are you a "nice girl" type?? That will put people off. I don't find that to be flattering with either gender. I find that there are places where I am great with finding other bi people and other places are like social hell for me because it's all gay and straight people.
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I am like 100% then nice girl type so that makes so much sense. Thanks so much