My girlfriends have been telling me since high school how vicious we girls can be to each other. Most of my friends are guys, but the girls I have as friends are laid back with everybody. I picked them for that reason. I do notice this cattiness in other circles among girls--especially at other schools. I don't know why it persists. Competition? Insecurity? I also notice guys can be total pricks to each other, even though they're usually really nice to girls. Or at least to the girls they think are hot.
Sad to say, I do think your experience of girl-on-girl animosity is normal. Good luck.
IIN that female class colleagues react this way upon seeing me?
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My girlfriends have been telling me since high school how vicious we girls can be to each other. Most of my friends are guys, but the girls I have as friends are laid back with everybody. I picked them for that reason. I do notice this cattiness in other circles among girls--especially at other schools. I don't know why it persists. Competition? Insecurity? I also notice guys can be total pricks to each other, even though they're usually really nice to girls. Or at least to the girls they think are hot.
Sad to say, I do think your experience of girl-on-girl animosity is normal. Good luck.