I tried to be pushy a few times in the past, but I only had terrible experiences. I don't understand why women make such simple matters so complicated.
Being a guy is certainly hard. If you aren't pushy enough, women feel rejected... if you are too pushy, they get offended and you will most certainly lose all your chances with them. The worst thing is that, women don't even want to talk with guys about their limits, they get offended by that too!
I understand that confidence is what I need... It is just that... I feel like it is all a stupid game, a game that I don't want to be part of. I just wish you could just fall in love with someone naturally, without using tricks or acting to get the other person interested. Confidence is great or whatever when you are picking up girls... but honestly... confidence is not important at all once you are already in a relationship.
I don't know... I guess I just don't want to act like an animal in heat.
Then don't!! You can go out and meet many girls,talk with them all and ser which one you click the most with
..and then you don't need to play any games. In fact be yourself okay?! Am sure your great yourself and that you have a charming personality,so let that speak out!!
Yes they do!!! Women say they want a guy to have a "balance" between being an asshole and a wimp, but the balance never works because you you still have a bit of both and you and your either one or the other. Females dont (and never will) know what they want. Women make everything complicated even though it doesn't have to be. Just say you want his money and stop being so difficult. Lol.
IIN that everyone says I am handsome, but I am still virgin at 24?
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I tried to be pushy a few times in the past, but I only had terrible experiences. I don't understand why women make such simple matters so complicated.
Being a guy is certainly hard. If you aren't pushy enough, women feel rejected... if you are too pushy, they get offended and you will most certainly lose all your chances with them. The worst thing is that, women don't even want to talk with guys about their limits, they get offended by that too!
I understand that confidence is what I need... It is just that... I feel like it is all a stupid game, a game that I don't want to be part of. I just wish you could just fall in love with someone naturally, without using tricks or acting to get the other person interested. Confidence is great or whatever when you are picking up girls... but honestly... confidence is not important at all once you are already in a relationship.
I don't know... I guess I just don't want to act like an animal in heat.
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Then don't!! You can go out and meet many girls,talk with them all and ser which one you click the most with
..and then you don't need to play any games. In fact be yourself okay?! Am sure your great yourself and that you have a charming personality,so let that speak out!!
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Yes they do!!! Women say they want a guy to have a "balance" between being an asshole and a wimp, but the balance never works because you you still have a bit of both and you and your either one or the other. Females dont (and never will) know what they want. Women make everything complicated even though it doesn't have to be. Just say you want his money and stop being so difficult. Lol.