Is it normal that don't have a guy in my life?

i'm almost 18.i used to be shy till two years back and even after i got over my shyness i never talked to guys all that much(maybe it was because i was living in a small town that time).so anyway i never considered myself pretty(especially then coz i had bad acne which only became bearable till about a year ago).so it wasn't strange atall that guys weren't into me.but now that i'm almost 18 the lack of a guy in my life is a bit irritating.its not that guys haven't been into me.a few have maybe 5-6 but all the wrong kind.if i have to be honest i am average to look at(yeahh sometimes my skin bugs me)but i have a good personality(thats what everyone says).i can talk to anyone,everyone...so the thing is a guy in my college liked me(it was the month college began)and i told him no.i liked my other friend whose commited(i still kind of like him but never behave weirdly with him.we hang out alot since hes currently in a long distance)..i have alot of guy friends but it seems they don't look at me in that way(i hang out with a bunch of guys sometimes i'm the only girl in the group sometimes not..at times they seem to forget i'm a gal..its kind of nice but bugging too)..in the meantime the guy who told me he really was crazy about me(he used to be my good friend)started going out with this girl after 2 and 1/2 weeks n hardly talks to me anymore(this pissed me off..i thought we were friends anyway).i could have had a fling easily but i didn't want to coz i've always wanted the right guy.so the thing is i see couples everywhere,almost everyone seems to have someone or is committed.i have wanted to have someone for a year or maybe more but never really tried to "find" someone.always thought it should naturally happen .i have never kissed or had a relationship.so is it circumstances or me?am i doing the right thing in thinking that i'm 18 and i have all the time in the world? am i normal?

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  • Of course it's strange. Who do you have to make sammiches for?

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  • You're only 18, woman! You've still got a long time ahead of you and you're just wasting my time reading your post.

    Not having a man doesn't make you abnormal, all you have to do is be yourself and be more open-minded the next time some guy asks you out. What you're experiencing is something most girls have experienced at one point or another. You're not unique at all and you'll be delusional if you think you are.

    Go out there and enjoy yourself, have hobbies and interests. Increase your self-confidence and the men will come begging!

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  • im the sa~me. dont worry, someone will show up. hopefully for us both =3

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  • Leave it at the mercy of God.. He fill fix up your photo in sum1 exceptional's heart.. And it will b like " Ajab prem ki ghazab kahani ". That's what v call it here in India.. Keep rocking. Buhbye..

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  • dont jump into sexule frustrations for the sake of doing it. You will hurt yourself and come out confused. If you open up, and you meet someone through the wounders of the earth then you have nothing to wait for. In do time A man will work for you because he saw something he was interested in. something he wanted!

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  • Wait it's 10 times better when you find him or in my case her I have friends how haven't had a gf when a girl showed them the signs no fin idea why you want to save yourself just kiss a guy Jesus you act like your first kiss should be special

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  • hell, i could give you some love

    i think you've got a little ego
    maybe judgemental of me, but i'm just saying

    otherwise, i think everyone's time comes
    me too still single.. about to be 20

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  • Why the rush? Some people don't find their one and only til they're well in their 30s. Love comes when it loves, you can't push it. God has a plan and person for each of us, just be patient. :)

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  • Of course your normal! You come across as a really independant young girl. The time will come for the right guy just wait for him.x

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  • I'm a little bit in the same boat as you are and I am 20! Just live your life, have fun, and when it happens it happens.

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  • That's not important focus on yourself

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  • It might be frustrating now but relationships are hard work and can be complicated. You'll find a nice guy :)

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