Is it normal that bushy eyebrows are a dealbreaker for me?

Not bad, any person who has uni monobrow thick eyebrows probably has thick pubic hair as well and does not pluck the brows or trims the hair

Interesting that both you and your boyfriend have uni eyebrows, its not really common for guys to have them and even less for girls, why do you two just accept having them and stop the plucking

I also have had bushy eyebrows, infact since I as 11 or 12. In my teenage years I was under pressure to pluck them off, however, I ignored do that as ' deep inside' I was rather proud of them, being the only boy who had thick monobrow eyebrows. I am now over 60, my eyebrows are no longer bushy although I look back when I was 24 when I go married, my eyebrows are really thick looking on my wedding photographs my wife asked me NOT to get them plucked even for our wedding