Is it normal that boys don't talk to me.

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  • This happens to me constantly. It makes you feel like shit. I also went to see someone about other things too and she also cried for me. She said that she felt sorry for me because I care about everyone and the world so much that it must be a burden. I also love more than anyone knows and I am there for even people I dont know. I have tried to speak to guys but they just look at me up and down and give a discusted look and turn away. I too get people think Im lying when I tell them no one is interested in me and doesnt speak to me. Well it feels like they arent interested. I googled this tonight as I really felt down about it and wnated to find out why it was happening Im so happy I came across your post because it makes me feel like Im not alone. I look at these girls, I also think are prettier than me and feel like Im not good enough. It makes you feel like your gonna be alone forever and you just want someone to hold your hand, look in your eyes and tell you, That yes you are good enough and your good enough for them. Unlike you my family are pretty selfish and don't bother with me despite trying to constantly form a relationship. I finally gave up after all the insults etc. Like you people tell me Im gorgeous, Pretty etc but I feel if that was true, I wouldn't feel like this, I wouldn't be alone and I wouldnt be passed off for some other girl, That gives me dirty looks. Yes these girls that the guys pick always give me dirty looks for what reason I dont know. I dont speak to them, I dont look at their boyfriend and I wouldnt do that anyway. I just simply exist and I have had not so nice girls be mean to me and when I ask why, They say “Well look at you, Your pretty arent u” I cant help bit laugh at this cos I think to myself, You have no idea what my life os like and people say its because they are threatened by me but I think they are prettier than me and how are they threatened when they have someone and I don't.

    Anyway Im not trying to bring u down further, Just wanted u to know ur not alone and quite honestly I was thinking it was just me. I do have some good advice though, Be yourself, If they dont speak to you then they arent worth the time anyway and if anyone treats u like shit, Ignore them and be the best you. Be happy with and comfortable with yourself. I spent too many years when I was younger watching my mum get treated terrible by men and she let them because she just wanted to be loved and although I want that to, I will not let anyone treat me like rubbish. Im concentrating on my career now. Concentrate on what you want and go from there. Boys aren't everything hunny 🙂 Thats what makes me stay strong. I realised theres nothing wrong with me and its them, Not me but Im human, I get sad sometimes but please stay strong hunny

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