wow i thought i was reading about myself but i'm a guy, almost all points are same, i got hidden socialanxiety so i think i appear more ignornat and standofish as knowone knows. I seam be fine with people in shops or dont know but scared of commitments i think.
If people have broken threw my defences they seam give up quick ha. i rekon people would be shocked if never knew had relationships or slept many people i tend cover it up saying i go other place or know people diff town etc. I got 1 friend who quite similar to me and we both used socialise a lot and do cool stuff. It kinda of an unwritten code we have we dont acully talk about it but we both know we have issues ha.
I totally relate to teh post i know i writing bad i tired ha but it gets harder i think as people knowtice so i feel it easier to look ignornat or doing something else to cover up awkardness i.e textin, how did we cope before fones i use mine so much to get out awkward situtions.
It cant be my looks i dont think i attarctive to anyone but people said i ok and some girls said i look like timberlake ha. There must be something in my perception and personality. I think it can get harder if have fear rejection in group talks and looking stupid etc it case for me anyway
only females i tend talk to is my mum and doctors or people on tills. Knowone mentions it to me but must be noticable, i neve rknow what to say to girls ha i always think about hard explain why
Is it normal that boys don't talk to me.
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wow i thought i was reading about myself but i'm a guy, almost all points are same, i got hidden socialanxiety so i think i appear more ignornat and standofish as knowone knows. I seam be fine with people in shops or dont know but scared of commitments i think.
If people have broken threw my defences they seam give up quick ha. i rekon people would be shocked if never knew had relationships or slept many people i tend cover it up saying i go other place or know people diff town etc. I got 1 friend who quite similar to me and we both used socialise a lot and do cool stuff. It kinda of an unwritten code we have we dont acully talk about it but we both know we have issues ha.
I totally relate to teh post i know i writing bad i tired ha but it gets harder i think as people knowtice so i feel it easier to look ignornat or doing something else to cover up awkardness i.e textin, how did we cope before fones i use mine so much to get out awkward situtions.
It cant be my looks i dont think i attarctive to anyone but people said i ok and some girls said i look like timberlake ha. There must be something in my perception and personality. I think it can get harder if have fear rejection in group talks and looking stupid etc it case for me anyway
only females i tend talk to is my mum and doctors or people on tills. Knowone mentions it to me but must be noticable, i neve rknow what to say to girls ha i always think about hard explain why