If you're autist, how can you have any friends? How do you make friends with others you can't connect with?
I'm honestly wondering bcs I can't connect with anyone and have no friends. Well, technically one, whom I don't like and often consider dumping.
Bcs I'm autistic for real? Not like you fake-ass claims-to-be. Or because. I'm my own person, speaking up my truth not bitching down to please anyone with what they'd like to hear
Tumblr and here obviously. If they have friends they are not autistic, it's against the definition. They may have other mental issue or disorder but not autism
Not all autistic people are the same. As litelander said, it's called a spectrum for a reason.
Also finding ways to meet people who are very interested in your special interest(s) really helps.
Most of my friends were made through a strong common interest. In high school, I made friends through music ensembles and the school's Super Smash Bros club. Now in college, I've made friends through my school's art club and anime club.
No. Funny thing when a child psychiatry professor, said to be the most competent and respected in the country, examined me when 10yo they proclaimed to my parents 'Rest assured, your kid is not autistic'. And yet I see ppl here (at least claiming to be) much more functional and at the same time claiming to be autistic it just can't be true for real. Like Greta Tunberg, bitch can hold speeches and rallies in front of crowds and start a movement yet pretend to be 'autistic' Bcs it's trendy among her snowflake fans. An autist by definition can't connect emotionally with others and communicate successfully. If they speak at all they'll only say weird annoying things that others would not like to hear, coming off rude or at least inconsiderate. Just like me! No wonder they ganged up to bully me. Autists are commonly bullied by normies.
IIN that as a woman, I feel like I can't relate much to my own gender?
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If you're autist, how can you have any friends? How do you make friends with others you can't connect with?
I'm honestly wondering bcs I can't connect with anyone and have no friends. Well, technically one, whom I don't like and often consider dumping.
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I think that’s why is referred to as a “spectrum”, my dear.
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Or you were wrongly diagnosed or just pretending bcs you see it as somehow trendy to be autistic?
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I’m not OP but I can see why you can’t make friends. 🤷🏾♀️
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That's the same girl who posted several times about being a virgin lesbian and about the sister with a boyfriend
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Ima guy?!
Naw, that psycho is Pleasetalktome.
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I hate being wrong >:c
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Bcs I'm autistic for real? Not like you fake-ass claims-to-be. Or because. I'm my own person, speaking up my truth not bitching down to please anyone with what they'd like to hear
Outside of Tumblr being autistic isn’t trendy. Just because someone’s autism is not immediately obvious to you doesn’t mean they are nuerotypical.
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Tumblr and here obviously. If they have friends they are not autistic, it's against the definition. They may have other mental issue or disorder but not autism
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Which definition are you using?
Not all autistic people are the same. As litelander said, it's called a spectrum for a reason.
Also finding ways to meet people who are very interested in your special interest(s) really helps.
Most of my friends were made through a strong common interest. In high school, I made friends through music ensembles and the school's Super Smash Bros club. Now in college, I've made friends through my school's art club and anime club.
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I don't think you are really autistic then.
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You wish to be the only autistic person in the world?
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No. Funny thing when a child psychiatry professor, said to be the most competent and respected in the country, examined me when 10yo they proclaimed to my parents 'Rest assured, your kid is not autistic'. And yet I see ppl here (at least claiming to be) much more functional and at the same time claiming to be autistic it just can't be true for real. Like Greta Tunberg, bitch can hold speeches and rallies in front of crowds and start a movement yet pretend to be 'autistic' Bcs it's trendy among her snowflake fans. An autist by definition can't connect emotionally with others and communicate successfully. If they speak at all they'll only say weird annoying things that others would not like to hear, coming off rude or at least inconsiderate. Just like me! No wonder they ganged up to bully me. Autists are commonly bullied by normies.
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But from reading your comments you seem articulate.
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Right. Autists are intelligent, aren't they? And I don't claim to be necessary an autist but those ppl are even less autistic than I could be