Yep, that's pretty much the way of the world.
It would be a lot easier to allow one of the guys that is interested in you, into your life, but of course, as you said, you won't do that.
Flexibility is not a bad virtue.
Settling for someone who isn't what you want is going to make you far more unhappy though, surely. Why would she want someone in her life who she isn't interested in?
It's about wanting and reality.
There are hundreds of guys out there who are decent, wonderful people, but they just don't look like some movie star.
Allowing yourself to get to know others, not based on superficial things like looks and being cool (awesome?), but just being open to advances from those less than perfect on the outside, might lead to a lasting relationship with someone who might never have been a contender otherwise. Someone wonderful.
Life is way too short to wait for that perfect someone, if he/she even exists.
Thanks for your comment- well worded however,I know it comes down to reality at the end of the day. The guys I go for are based on personality not looks at all. It seems like ur implying that I am expecting a stunner to come along or that I am only interested in good looking guys when in fact it's the opposite. The guy that I had a huge crush on was cool, popular and still is and probably a little egotistical now that I think of it. He is deff not amazingly gorgeous. He has freckles and I think a lot of girls would wonder why I liked him. I liked him for him. The main thing I loved was his humor, he was just so funny. The thing I was trying to make a point of in my post is that I hardly ever develop crushes and when I do, the fella doesn't feel the same. Similar goes in friendships, I try really hard at pursuing a long lasting friendship with certain people. I am always making the contact eg- txt and usually asking when to catch up.
Never said anything was/is wrong. Why do you think I mentioned it O.o Most the guys I had crushes on from the age of 12-15 had freckles. In fact I think that is most likely what contributed to me developing crushes on them :P I only stated that as I know a lot of people who do not particularly like freckles or find them attractive.
IIN that all the people that I would like to have in my life...
← View full post
Yep, that's pretty much the way of the world.
It would be a lot easier to allow one of the guys that is interested in you, into your life, but of course, as you said, you won't do that.
Flexibility is not a bad virtue.
--
dom180
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
6
6
-
Anonymous Post Author
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Settling for someone who isn't what you want is going to make you far more unhappy though, surely. Why would she want someone in her life who she isn't interested in?
--
Anonymous Post Author
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
Exactly.
Well why would I date a guy I'm not interested in? O.o
--
thegypsysailor
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
It's about wanting and reality.
There are hundreds of guys out there who are decent, wonderful people, but they just don't look like some movie star.
Allowing yourself to get to know others, not based on superficial things like looks and being cool (awesome?), but just being open to advances from those less than perfect on the outside, might lead to a lasting relationship with someone who might never have been a contender otherwise. Someone wonderful.
Life is way too short to wait for that perfect someone, if he/she even exists.
--
Anonymous Post Author
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Thanks for your comment- well worded however,I know it comes down to reality at the end of the day. The guys I go for are based on personality not looks at all. It seems like ur implying that I am expecting a stunner to come along or that I am only interested in good looking guys when in fact it's the opposite. The guy that I had a huge crush on was cool, popular and still is and probably a little egotistical now that I think of it. He is deff not amazingly gorgeous. He has freckles and I think a lot of girls would wonder why I liked him. I liked him for him. The main thing I loved was his humor, he was just so funny. The thing I was trying to make a point of in my post is that I hardly ever develop crushes and when I do, the fella doesn't feel the same. Similar goes in friendships, I try really hard at pursuing a long lasting friendship with certain people. I am always making the contact eg- txt and usually asking when to catch up.
--
RoseIsabella
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
What's wrong with freckles?
--
Anonymous Post Author
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
Never said anything was/is wrong. Why do you think I mentioned it O.o Most the guys I had crushes on from the age of 12-15 had freckles. In fact I think that is most likely what contributed to me developing crushes on them :P I only stated that as I know a lot of people who do not particularly like freckles or find them attractive.
--
RoseIsabella
9 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
1
1
Oh, right on.