Is it normal that aguy isn't ready for sex mentally?

i'm an 18 year old guy . i've plenty of chances for sex but i'm really not ready mentally (say the gay jokes but give a good help after it) .i just dont want to lose that first time charm in a not so good sex .

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Based on 11 votes (10 yes)
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  • josh69tx

    im the same way. i only done it with two girls who i were with for awhile. i cant do it to someone i barely know or anything. i always stop them before we go all the way.

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  • Do what feels right to you, more power to you for wanting it to be special and sacred. Too many people throw such things away these days and you should only ever have sex when you feel ready to, never before.

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  • catocato52028

    Im the same way to. I'm 17 and guys and my friends just tell me to just do it already but I wan't my first time to mean something. Its almost like nobody believes in love no more.

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  • solo

    No shot it's like hey hey hey bitch fuck me or get cut! I think I need to stopwatchibg MTV

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  • They don't make guys like they used to.

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  • jensapa

    I think that's cute!

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