I know this is like 6 years old post..
But I am a female 27 years old and I have a similar problem to yours.. There are two categories in which men fall for me..
Men I've deeply fallen for.. A great example is a guy I was crazy in love with.. We lived together almost everyday for 3 years.. after dating for a year.. It was so nice, I was so happy.. until we had sex (yes after 4 years we had sex for the first time..) and that was the end of it.. I felt such a sudden repulsion..I could not stand seeing him nor listening to his voice.. His whole existence bothered me.. I felt so guilty and sad but I can not get rid of that intense repulse I feel.. He was so shocked although I had warned him many times before he didn't expect such a reaction after being 4 years together.. I have to mention that I was turned on by him..
The other category is men I am just sexually attracted to.. I have sex and then I want forget he even exists but when I feel horny again I want to have sex again.. but I do not want a relationship, I don't develop any feelings for them.. I just want us to use each other as sex tools and that is all..
I haven't been molested or smth like that. I've tried so hard to figure out what is going on with me.. I am sure that being such a spiritual person plays its role.. Because when I fall in love with someone it feels like ruins that special spiritual bond.. I van be in a platonic (sexless) relationship forever and be super happy.. But I feel the same repulsion for men I am intensely attracted to but I do not love.. I can not understand why that happens.. I have never been forced to have sex, nor I had any bad sexual experience.. Also I am not asexual.. Nor lesbian.. I can not find what's the problem with me.
Now you must be around 24-25 years old..
I wanted to ask you if you still feel like this? If not what changed? Have you found out the reason this happened to you?
Is it normal that after sex with a girl I want nothing to do with them
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I know this is like 6 years old post..
But I am a female 27 years old and I have a similar problem to yours.. There are two categories in which men fall for me..
Men I've deeply fallen for.. A great example is a guy I was crazy in love with.. We lived together almost everyday for 3 years.. after dating for a year.. It was so nice, I was so happy.. until we had sex (yes after 4 years we had sex for the first time..) and that was the end of it.. I felt such a sudden repulsion..I could not stand seeing him nor listening to his voice.. His whole existence bothered me.. I felt so guilty and sad but I can not get rid of that intense repulse I feel.. He was so shocked although I had warned him many times before he didn't expect such a reaction after being 4 years together.. I have to mention that I was turned on by him..
The other category is men I am just sexually attracted to.. I have sex and then I want forget he even exists but when I feel horny again I want to have sex again.. but I do not want a relationship, I don't develop any feelings for them.. I just want us to use each other as sex tools and that is all..
I haven't been molested or smth like that. I've tried so hard to figure out what is going on with me.. I am sure that being such a spiritual person plays its role.. Because when I fall in love with someone it feels like ruins that special spiritual bond.. I van be in a platonic (sexless) relationship forever and be super happy.. But I feel the same repulsion for men I am intensely attracted to but I do not love.. I can not understand why that happens.. I have never been forced to have sex, nor I had any bad sexual experience.. Also I am not asexual.. Nor lesbian.. I can not find what's the problem with me.
Now you must be around 24-25 years old..
I wanted to ask you if you still feel like this? If not what changed? Have you found out the reason this happened to you?
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I have a prob too. Plz help. Check it out on my profile.