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Is it normal that after I have sex with someone I feel less connected to them & I do not want to see them as much? There is this girl I really like and now we that we had sex I feel distant.
Sex is a good barometer for our feelings...so that feeling is telling you you are not really into them and your search continues..if you feel this feeling a lot then you have some sort of problem...why are you constantly having sex with people your are not really into? You might be afraid of real commitment or connection
perhaps you should wait until you're sure she's someone you really want to spend the rest of your life with.
and i'm reminded of one of my supervisors. As he told us, the only reason he married his wife was because she WOULDN'T put out. He said if she'd slept with him when he first asked he'd have hit it and left. But she said "no" so the chase was on.