Is it normal that after i ejaculate, i lose all interest in sex?
For starters, I am preternaturally horny, and have been my whole life. In my late teens and early 20s, I really didn't have much of a "cooldown" period before I was ready to go again. I'm 43 now and for the last 5+ years or so, once I cum, I'm just done.
I've been happily married for the last 12 years and have a fairly active sex life, well, active enough for 2 working parents with 3 kids, averaging about 2-3 times per week.
The thing is, I'm not ready to go again for several hours, like 4 to 6 hours. Knowing I only have the one bullet in the chamber, I tend wring everything I can from the experience, as much as the situation will allow (think morning sex when you're trying to wrap things up before the kids start clamoring for breakfast).
Most of the time, this is OK. But there are times I know my wife would like to keep going. Getting another erection doesn't seem to be the problem. Once, I playfully told her that if she could get me up, we could keep going. Ten minutes of oral attention later she climbed on for more.
There have been several times that I am so enjoying the moment, I want to do that again, but the moment I cum, I lose all desire. And I mean all. For a few hours at least.