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after being married 30 years, my wife left and told me it was painful having sex with me, because I lasted too long for her. A few years ago she asked me to have sex with friends of hers from college, just to give her a break during those longer nights. I didn't like the idea, and still don't. In truth, I'd rather live without sex, than living without my wife.
she told me that her friends husbands couldn't or didn't last for a half hour and they wanted more than they were getting, to be satisfied. it's not my business, but I think they should be happy with the half hour or less. When we were younger, she kept up with me all night. Is this part of aging?
it's been 7 months or more since I was here last. My wife doesn't communicate with me much anymore. My health is ... the Dr's give me less than 18 months. Shrinking blood vessels, and one that is 95% blocked coming off the heart, so they suspect it will happen in winter, when the blood vessel contracts from the cold. MI They say she is distancing herself to avoid getting hurt. I think I will die alone. In honesty, that's okay, if it keeps her from getting hurt anymore. When she's with friends (away from me)she's seemingly happy. She says I've given up on life. I thought I was fighting to live. She hasn't seen the note from my Dr. I love my wife! Someday she will have an idea of how much I love her, and have since I met her. Enjoy life! enjoy those you love most in life.
she told me that she had given me alternatives, such as having sex with some of her friends from college and work, but that I had declined. Pain, she said that after 90 minutes of nonstop intercourse, she felt ripped apart inside.
I did decline and would again. I have no idea who those women have been with or what they could have been exposed to. I didn't want to chance getting something and giving it to my wife. I told her, I'm fine with less sex, but she always insisted on trying to finish me off. She said she wanted to please me. She pleases me in every thing she does! Forget about the sex, I won't die without it. But I sure feel like I could die without her.