This is exactly the kind of disrespectful behavior that destroys marriages and relationships.
Here you have a female that is intentionally and knowingly leading on a male coworker that is clearly trying to seduce her and cheat on his family and she hers. Not only has she has formed a 'secret' emotional relationship with this other male but she's also formed a secret physical relationship with this other male. Both are betrayals to her mate.
Honestly you are not supposed to form emotional bonds with members of the opposite sex talking about private or secret things about your relationship. If you wouldn't talk about it in front of your spouse you shouldn't be talking about it without him/her.
Why? Because you are forming strong emotional connections to some other person of the sex you're attracted to who is being sympathetic to you to gain your trust and affection which increases attraction. You are also intentionally keeping secrets from your mate by doing that. So you've already emotionally betrayed him/her. Once the emotional connections are made the physical connections - the actual cheating are easy.
If you're so weak minded and needy that you must talk to others about your personal problems with your mate then do it with someone of the same sex -the sex you're not sexually attracted to so you're not emotionally or sexually tied to them and betraying your spouse.
How can your husband trust you and why should he?
Come on OP grow up, tell your husband what's going on then report back here with the truth.
Women, even young girls are not even this stupid.
The male coworker is pure garbage and trying to cheat. I'm not excusing his behavior at all but he didn't post here so that's why my replies are geared mostly towards her.
More reasons to never get married or enter a committed relationship.
Is it normal that a man I know touches me every time I see him?
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This is exactly the kind of disrespectful behavior that destroys marriages and relationships.
Here you have a female that is intentionally and knowingly leading on a male coworker that is clearly trying to seduce her and cheat on his family and she hers. Not only has she has formed a 'secret' emotional relationship with this other male but she's also formed a secret physical relationship with this other male. Both are betrayals to her mate.
Honestly you are not supposed to form emotional bonds with members of the opposite sex talking about private or secret things about your relationship. If you wouldn't talk about it in front of your spouse you shouldn't be talking about it without him/her.
Why? Because you are forming strong emotional connections to some other person of the sex you're attracted to who is being sympathetic to you to gain your trust and affection which increases attraction. You are also intentionally keeping secrets from your mate by doing that. So you've already emotionally betrayed him/her. Once the emotional connections are made the physical connections - the actual cheating are easy.
If you're so weak minded and needy that you must talk to others about your personal problems with your mate then do it with someone of the same sex -the sex you're not sexually attracted to so you're not emotionally or sexually tied to them and betraying your spouse.
How can your husband trust you and why should he?
Come on OP grow up, tell your husband what's going on then report back here with the truth.
Women, even young girls are not even this stupid.
The male coworker is pure garbage and trying to cheat. I'm not excusing his behavior at all but he didn't post here so that's why my replies are geared mostly towards her.
More reasons to never get married or enter a committed relationship.
Are people REALLY this stupid?
FUCK.