I can't really say if it's "normal" or not, even limited to the realm of non-hetero relationships... but I feel I'm a little bit similar, with a few key differences.
I've always liked women, and likely always will. They are the gender that I feel "chemistry" for, the only gender I have ever fallen in love with completely, and the only gender I could ever see myself spending the rest of my life with. I get women, they make sense, and they turn me to jello when that feeling is in the air. I get none of this with men.
Don't get me wrong, I like guys plenty- as friends, but I certainly can't really see myself happily cuddling or kissing / making out with one. I even dated a few guys, one for almost 4 months and that bit still felt very forced and awkward for me. I can't imagine a non-sexual relationship with a guy that isn't just "a buddy".
That being said... I also love penises. Men have a pretty damn strong sexual draw to me, and I'm rather frequently craving sexual activity with men... but that's sort of where it ends. I want the sex, but not the relationship. I weirdly don't even like it when a guy I have sex with likes me for my personality instead of just my body. As you can imagine, this would lead to pretty empty sex and is rather horrible all around... so I don't really do it that often, but that urge is still there...
Is it normal that a lesbian is attracted to penises?
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I can't really say if it's "normal" or not, even limited to the realm of non-hetero relationships... but I feel I'm a little bit similar, with a few key differences.
I've always liked women, and likely always will. They are the gender that I feel "chemistry" for, the only gender I have ever fallen in love with completely, and the only gender I could ever see myself spending the rest of my life with. I get women, they make sense, and they turn me to jello when that feeling is in the air. I get none of this with men.
Don't get me wrong, I like guys plenty- as friends, but I certainly can't really see myself happily cuddling or kissing / making out with one. I even dated a few guys, one for almost 4 months and that bit still felt very forced and awkward for me. I can't imagine a non-sexual relationship with a guy that isn't just "a buddy".
That being said... I also love penises. Men have a pretty damn strong sexual draw to me, and I'm rather frequently craving sexual activity with men... but that's sort of where it ends. I want the sex, but not the relationship. I weirdly don't even like it when a guy I have sex with likes me for my personality instead of just my body. As you can imagine, this would lead to pretty empty sex and is rather horrible all around... so I don't really do it that often, but that urge is still there...
I guess we're all just a little bit weird.